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The Couples Money Date: A 30-Minute Checklist
26 October 2026 · SlateAndTally
A money date is a short, regular check-in about your shared money. Done well, it stops small worries turning into big fights.
Set the scene
Pick a regular time, maybe the first Sunday of the month. Make a cuppa. Keep it to 30 minutes.
The checklist
- Wins: one money win each since last time
- Bills: anything due in the next month?
- Spending: any category that went over?
- Goals: how are savings tracking?
- Coming up: birthdays, Christmas, holidays, car service
- One change: agree one small change for next month
Keep it kind
No blame. Talk about the plan, not each other. If one person handles most of the money, share the screen so both see the same numbers.
Read our couples budget guide and see the couples budget planner.
General information only, not financial or tax advice.
FAQ
How often should we do a money date?
Monthly suits most couples.
What if we argue?
Pause, and focus on one small agreed change.
Do we need joint accounts?
No.
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